Do you love the idea of receiving beautiful letters and/or packages via your mailbox? Sign up for #ConfidentMail to get a partner!


April is here and is recognized nationally as Sexual Assault Awareness Month! I am celebrating my 20 year survivorship of incest that I kept to myself for years… sexual abuse and many other painful life situations are hard to discuss. We put on the brave face for the world but often are feeling so sad internally. This month, I am asking all participants to speak a word of encouragement to the their recipients. We all have pains to overcome—help your sister queen get through even if she never shared the pain with you. Create something beautifully empowering for your partner filled with the color teal that will remind your partner that they are not alone in their silent struggle! Create happy mail and pray over it and your partner. Be creative in your approach—no mail is too big or too small!


  • Sign up between April 1st and 7th by completing the form below. Your partner will be emailed to you by April 10th.
  • Once you have received your partner’s information, connect! Send them a greeting either via email or Instagram message.
  • Post 2 photos: 1. A picture of the confident mail you are sending (please do not disclose your partner’s mailing address) and 2. A picture of the mail that you receive. For both photos, use #confidentmail so that we can find and love on your photos!
  • All #confidentmail must be mailed by the last day of the designated month. There is no minimum spending amount–give as you would like to see given to you!

Have fun and create away! Our goal is to light up someone else’s mailbox with love! However, if you fail to send your partner the mail requested, you will no longer be able to sign up for future exchanges. We have ZERO tolerance for taking advantage of others. If you need more time or have a hiccup, email us at before the designated month ends.

CLOSED until May 1st. Come back soon!